That's one version of it. The details are never the same twice — different people, a different week. Familiar is enough.
Who has studied this
Places worth knowing about. None of them ours.
Which one you reach for depends on what the argument keeps coming back to. That choice is most of the work.
Which one, and when
The argument is usually the symptom.
Almost every version of this starts at the person, which is the most natural place to look and the least likely place for the answer to be. So these three are three first questions, and the order matters more than any one of them: what the job was set up with, is this can't or won't, and which belief in the chain has gone. Whichever you answer first decides what the conversation is even for.
- Nobody has ever said out loud what good looks likeSix places the problem could be, in order
- You need to know whether this is support or a standardIs it can't, or is it won't?
- The ability's there, the standard's clear, and it still isn't happeningFind the link that's broken
What to do
Before any of this is about who you are.
Five readings
This plays differently depending on what you reach for first.
Pick the one that sounds most like you. Reading a dimension is not a claim that you are one.